Saturday, July 24, 2010

Vacation, Family Planning and More!

We just got back from our first long vacation with Micah. We went to my parent's house at Emerald Isle for the week. We did not choose the best beach week - the wind was blowing hard and the waves were rough - but Micah did great. He slept very well - something he usually doesn't do on trips - and he loved the beach for about an hour at a time. As any parent knows, vacations are not the same once children come along. I love watching Micah experience the things I love - especially the ocean - but I do miss sitting on the beach for several hours with a book in hand.

This vacation gave Jamie and I some perspective in making a few major decisions about our family. Lately we've been discussing how many kids we want (2 or 3) and how far apart we want them to be (2 years or 3 years). We had pretty much agreed on 2 kids 3 years apart, but this trip might have changed that. We are a very go, go, go couple - we love to travel and do things all the time - and although we love the baby stage, we are very excited about all the things we can do with Micah when he's 2, 3, etc. Then it occurred to us that around the time he gets REALLY fun (we're thinking 3), we'll be starting over with a newborn.

So we're considering having #2 soon so that we basically get through the baby stage quicker and then have two kids who are ready for the same activities around the same time. I know if we do this I'll be a crazy woman for awhile (I'm kinda crazy with just one), but I really love the idea of Micah and his sibling being close enough in age to be best friends. So we'll see...

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A quick update on what's new with Micah at 10.5 months:
  • finally crawls with stomach off the floor, standing and cruising along furniture
  • eats about half baby food, half table food
  • babbles constantly (da-da, ba-ba, na-na, hey)
  • LOVES books (I couldn't be more proud!), will stop playing to sit and listen to a story
  • more controlled movements (goes gently from standing to sitting, can place objects with control as opposed to always slinging/throwing them)
  • understands a lot of what I say
  • loves opening/closing cabinets
  • loves drinking from a straw
  • is a most awesome napper/night time sleeper
  • goes to Kindermusik playgroup on Tuesdays and will start Mother's Morning Out on Mondays this fall

For Micah's 1st birthday on September 5, we've decided to have a family barbecue. We are looking forward to doing a party with friends when he's older, but we ultimately decided to keep things simple and intimate this year (if you call 7 grandparents, 3 aunts and 2 uncles simple or intimate ;-). I can't believe he's almost 1! We love him so much and are so thankful that God chose him to be our baby!

3 comments:

Jenn said...

Brett and Kate are 13 months apart and NOW (at 3 years and 4 years old), we absolutely LOVE that they are so close together. There was a year or so that I thought I wasn't going to make it, but it is so nice now! I'm sure that it will all work out how it's supposed to for your family :)

Andrea said...

:)

Anonymous said...

You know ours are exactly 2 years apart and most days I feel like I'm going to lose my mind but I know in a year or so, things will be easier and they will have so much fun playing with one another. Whatever you decide will be right for your family. So glad yall had fun at the beach!